tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2063829596229833270.post4159965939540843616..comments2023-03-01T03:16:12.438-08:00Comments on Homemade By Lauren: {Family Matters : Things People Say}Laurenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02502942776454519185noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2063829596229833270.post-65047289529068408402012-03-19T17:17:32.254-07:002012-03-19T17:17:32.254-07:00Of course, the 'not having babies' questio...Of course, the 'not having babies' questions and comments happen as often to those of my married friends without kids. It seems "dammed if you do or dammed if you don't" as the expression goes. I think the important thing is to do the right thing for your family (whether your family is you and hubby or with kids on top of that). <br />What is right for you will not be right for others. Some have kids straight away, others wait. Some have their kids close together and others spread out. I think the sooner we accept that life would be boring if we were all the same and appreciate each other for who we are, with NO JUDGEMENT.....the world would be a better place! :)Laurenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02502942776454519185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2063829596229833270.post-12214242925068145332012-03-19T14:37:58.551-07:002012-03-19T14:37:58.551-07:00Not having been pregnant, I haven't experience...Not having been pregnant, I haven't experienced baby bump questions - but questions about when we're going to have kids are just as bad! Since my husband and I have been married 3 years now, people we hardly know seem to think its fine to question us about when we're going to have children, why we haven't had them yet, and then imply we've made the wrong choices or have the wrong opinion when we say we are happily going to wait awhile yet! Friends of my parents (who I may see once a year if that) on the weekend seemed to think it was fine to give us "advice" (orders) that we needed to have kids now! If God overrides our plans than we would totally be happy with that, but for now - we are happy and content being child free!Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10675028965017872073noreply@blogger.com